| wow, it's been a while since I've been on here. so, my life is still crazy. I got caught up in 2 relationships and both of then ended bad because the other person decided to lie to me. I hate it when people lie. and it's always about the dumbest stuff. why can't people just be honest. how do they expect yuo to want to be in a relationship with them, if they don't even want to be honest with you? aren't relationships supposed to be built on honestly and trust? I trust people too easily and they take advantage of it and lie about stuff. now i'm going to really have my guard up, because I'm sick of getting hurt and I don't want to set myself up to get hurt again. i think i need to take a break from relationships for a little while, so that I can think about how to be better at them so that there aren't so many problems. am i just not dateable? because both times, the other person told me that they just weren't ready for a relationship and that's why we weren't together and then they turn around and go date someone else. dude, if you don't want to date me, just say so. be honest. i might be alittle hurt, but i'll still accept it and move on, because I know that I can't force someone to be in a relationship with me, no matter what I say or do, and I wouldn't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me. that would only hurt me more, then just accepting the fact that i can't have them. From now on, I'm not rushing into a relationship with someone that I barely know, or that i have only been friends with for alittle while, because it just doesn't work out that way. to date someone, you have to know them first, not completely every detail about them, but know them enough that you know that they are being themself around you and being honest and trustworthy, because if you start it off with that , then you have a basis to start with and you aren't going inot the relationship completely blind and unknowing of who they are, and what they're like when you're not around, and if you can trust them. |
